I was tagged some time ago from Morgan at the Process of a Miracle. She was tagged by Bobby who was tagged by Marzie.
I’m sure after I answer these questions I’ll think of a better response. So I’ll just go by my first thought, which is usually the best answer.
*******Copy the questions and answer them honestly*********
~What does true love me to you?
Wow this first question is a deep one. Well, I can say that true love with the right person is awesome! It means never having to explain yourself. It means understanding each other without words. It means loving unconditionally. I could go on, but I’ll leave my answers brief.
~How do you know if your really in love?
You mean other than thinking of the person with every breath you take? You mean you miss the person when they are more than 10 feet away from you? You mean when you heart aches and you face is sore from smiling? If it’s not these things then I don’t understand the question.
~How many times in your life have you fallen in love?
Many. I’m a hopeless romantic.
~Have you ever fell out of true love because you were mad in the moment?
No, not really. But I fell out of love because I had many mad moments with the same person.
~Do you feel love and physical attraction are the same thing?
No it’s not the same thing. In a healthy relationship they are closely tied together. I would hope that the person you are falling in love with is attractive. It surely helps. Putting it another way, the attractiveness of the other person is a bonus when you are falling in love with them.
~If your true love became ill or disfigured would you continue to love them the same way?
Yes of course. Otherwise, they wouldn’t have been my true love. I’m sure there would be challenges along the way. We would just have to find our way through the situation. Working through the issue is true love in my book.
~Should anyone else be able to tell you who to love or not love?
No. My mom tried that and it didn’t work. I loved who I loved and she didn’t really have a say. She had an opinion, but she couldn’t stop me. Or maybe I didn’t listen. Love is blind and deaf too.
~Do you believe people that ended up divorced were ever truly in love?
Maybe they were, but they feel out of love somehow, somewhere. People change, needs changes, etc. Such as life.
~Would you give up something you want for someone you love?
It depends. If it is something that is causing harm to the relationship, then yes I would give that something up.
~If you truly love someone do you feel it should be unconditional?
Absolutely. It’s what I’ve always believed. However, I like things to be equal based on current conditions. I love to give, but I have to be realistic with my time and resources.
I tag the following people……
jeez ro..what a tough question! i will do it but i need some time…thanks ro!
very well said Rolando.
Ahhh! I read this last night and had thought I had responded already.
I would be happy to do this. I always like thing s that make me ‘think’.
I’ll let you know when I get this finished.
~ZZ
Love your answers Rolando! U are after all very much experienced in love life.
We especially like your no. 2 answer. Love is just so beyond our vocabulary most of the time, we cannot even tell at times whether we are really in love. It takes a long time to mull over a thing like that.
Thanks for sharing your opinions of love. =)
These are very eloquent words on a very difficult topic. But my opinion still remains….love stinks
You did a fine job with this Rolando!
I knew this would be a good tag for you Rolando! Excellent answers….and one’s i can relate to as well! Thanks for participating!
Hi Waliz, yes love is a tough question to answer. I don’t think anyone has the right answer because what’s in the heart of one may not be the same in another. I’m definitely interested in seeing your response.
Hi Chris,
Thank you. My first response is usually the most truthful. I spent too much time worrying in the words, then I’d probably get lost in it.
Hi ZZ,
No problem if you didn’t answer. I know your answer will be as interesting as your childhood story on your last post.
Hey NAFA! Either I’m experienced or have an active imagination, lol. I’m sure people will have different opinions about love because everyone’s experience is so varied. Love is different for everyone. I’m just glad to experience have experienced it and felt its wonders.
Haha Ricardo. I agree love can stink, especially with the wrong person. It should be work 24/7 and you shouldn’t have to change yourself with each relationship. Either they accept you as you are or you learn to change yourself without anyone telling you.
Thanks for coming back and posting Eric. When you trying to post last time one of my new plugins was preventing that. I removed it and replaced it with something else.
It’s all I can say about love at a glance without getting too deep, lol.
“No problem if you didn’t answer. I know your answer will be as interesting as your childhood story on your last post.”
Oh No No No Rolando!!!
*Folds arms firmly over chest and taps foot on floor*
Don’t you *ever* let me off the hook *that* easily!!! Believe it or not, I have it started, just need to finish it.
Damn you! you Make me think!! *MWAW*
I’ll try to finish it tomorrow, I’m working late tonight.
It’s goood stuff!
Hi Morgan,
Thank you for the tag. I enjoyed sharing my answers and reading yours. Reading and writing about love is a nice reminder to be thankful for what I have. Not just from a relationship standpoint, but from a blogger’s prospective as well.
It’s so easy to fall in love with another blogger’s work. To admire them and embrace their words and wisdom. The embrace their humor and talents. You get a good glimpse to the person behind the keyboard.
I’m definitely a loving fan of yours Morgan!
haha ZZ, I didn’t know you were here, lol.
ok ok you know I’ll be waiting for your answer. I read your story yesterday and wanted to comment, but I got pulled away in an emergency meeting for work.
I won’t let you off the hook that easy so get cracking! haha hmmm whips reminds of Nellie. Anyway, hope you have a great day and don’t forget to post. The world is waiting . . . I’m waiting . . .
Yes!!!
I finished it! It’s done! *Does happy dance*
Sorry for the delay, I needed to think about this for a bit.
Great Meme!!!
And I tagged several people too, so hopefully they’ll be up for the challenge!
~ZZ
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